Grief and suicide

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Allah Nawaz Khan

Suffering is painful, but some sorrows are very painful. Painful sorrows pierce the heart. There is no human being who has not suffered pain and suffering. When the pain of sorrow increases, a person becomes disgusted with life and this disgust leads him to commit suicide. Life is a priceless blessing and a person wants to live. The love of life is so great that everything can be put at stake for the sake of life. Disgust from a precious and priceless blessing shows that suffering is unbearable. When a person takes his own life, it is not a trivial decision, but a very big decision.
Such decisions are not made easily, but have to go through many painful stages. Sometimes it also happens that the decision to take his life is made immediately. Whether it is a thoughtful decision or a sudden decision to take his life without thinking, one should think at least for a few moments before doing so. Why do people commit suicide? This is a question that has been seeking an answer for centuries. Sometimes it is understood It is believed that poverty makes a person hate his life, but the facts are different. Several months ago, Jahangir Tareen’s brother committed suicide, although he was very wealthy.
He had lived more than 60 years of his dear life, so it cannot be said that it was a decision of youth or ignorance. There was some sorrow that made him embrace death. A few days ago, a serving DSP also committed suicide with a gun. DSP is a big position in the world and a person holding this position has many powers and wealth is not less, but he committed suicide. There was some sorrow that made him commit suicide because that sorrow was beyond his tolerance. It is not easy to decide which way to commit suicide, but some sorrows are such that a person is forced to commit a forbidden act like suicide.
One should not commit suicide because it is a cowardly decision and cowardly decisions are not good. Before committing suicide, one should think about what is my How much joy my death will bring to my enemies and they will celebrate. This thought can save a person from death. Suicide is also forbidden in Islam and is also a wrong act from a moral perspective. By the way, taking your own life is not an easy task. Before committing suicide, a person is dying every moment. Excruciating pain does not let him sleep or give him rest. There is no person who has not experienced pain. Sometimes, the injustice done to another person also forces a person to commit suicide. The oppressor should think that if I am oppressing him today, then tomorrow I may also be oppressed. If the oppressed thinks that I am being oppressed, then Allah Almighty will reward me for it.
One should pray to Allah Almighty to avoid oppression. Suicide should not be committed, but sometimes a person is forced to do so. If you see someone who is saying suc thing that make you know that he is worried and is about to commit suicide, then in every situation, he should be consoled and encouraged so that he does not commit suicide. Suffering is a part of life and cannot be avoided.
Suicide should not be considered a cure for suffering. Sometimes a person’s self-esteem is also shattered, sometimes even a trivial matter is considered so much that a person becomes ready to commit suicide. However, some suffering is very painful, so painful that a person commits suicide. It is necessary to understand that suicide is not a solution to the problem, but rather increases the problems.
The family and friends of the person who commits suicide continue to suffer throughout their lives, so one should not commit suicide out of concern for the suffering of their loved ones.